It is easy to get caught up in the contextual cultural details of this story and miss Jesus’ point. (This is a whole discussion for another time - not to ignore the details, but also not to let them rule the narrative.)
This is about readiness. Our readiness today is certainly different than waiting for a bridegroom or having enough oil to last an indeterminate amount of time.
What do you think made the wise group “wise” and the foolish group “foolish”? Of course the planning or lack thereof is at the heart of it, but what other factors could we imagine led to wisdom or to foolishness?
Matthew 25:1-13
“At that time the kingdom of heaven will be like ten young bridesmaids who took their lamps and went out to meet the groom. Now five of them were wise, and the other five were foolish. The foolish ones took their lamps but didn’t bring oil for them. But the wise ones took their lamps and also brought containers of oil.
“When the groom was late in coming, they all became drowsy and went to sleep. But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Look, the groom! Come out to meet him.’
“Then all those bridesmaids got up and prepared their lamps. But the foolish bridesmaids said to the wise ones, ‘Give us some of your oil, because our lamps have gone out.’
“But the wise bridesmaids replied, ‘No, because if we share with you, there won’t be enough for our lamps and yours. We have a better idea. You go to those who sell oil and buy some for yourselves.’ But while they were gone to buy oil, the groom came. Those who were ready went with him into the wedding. Then the door was shut.
“Later the other bridesmaids came and said, ‘Lord, lord, open the door for us.’
“But he replied, ‘I tell you the truth, I don’t know you.’
“Therefore, keep alert, because you don’t know the day or the hour.
Prayer
God,
Keep me ready for anything.
You have promised Jesus will return at a time unknown to us. Make us ready, so that when you return we might be welcomed into your kingdom with open arms.
By your spirit & in Christ,
Amen.