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Jeff Scott's avatar

"...be honest about what lives inside of us: the impulses, desires, resentments, or fears that give rise to harmful words and actions."

This is good stuff.

As a teenager and young man, I wish I understood my sexual impulses were impulses, and not temptation to sin. They were created to be strong, pushing me towards procreation. My church community wasn't good at helping me understand this. Those impulses were simply sinful outside of marriage. End of story. End of education. If I was experiencing them it was a sign my life wasn't right with God. This led to shame, which usually leads to more problems- resentments and fears, projection and harmful words or actions. I ended up doing a lot of Satan's work for him and he didn't even have to ask. Deceiver, indeed!

I understand where some of this teaching came from, but it's time for different teaching. I often wonder how Augustine might have viewed himself differently if he had any idea that hormones were a thing. And a good thing.

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Geoff DeFranca's avatar

Amen. A good, good word.

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